Society suffers from “soul loss”. People wake up every day and go to jobs they don’t like and smile at people they don’t love all because they feel that they have to. Most often this affects their mood, health, makes them not feel comfortable in their skin. Therefore they end up feeling envy and a little hate for people who seem comfortable in their bodies.
Your soul is your source of uniqueness. It allows you to connect to your essence, your core value and allows you to enjoy your life just as it is. When people suffer from soul loss, they tend to disconnect from their souls and accept a numbness that comes with lack of life’s meaning. This is an epidemic that needs to be fixed. When you are healed, you will see adventure and fun even in life’s troubles, and this will help you increase your joy in life, become happier and brings you success. So what are the characteristics of successful people that set them apart from others?
- They work out
- They are keen on what they eat
- They are comfortable in their own skins
- They are ambitious
- They know when to give up
- They have a passion to improve their skills
- They are authentic, humble and grateful
Is that about you? Are you familiar with these traits?
Here are a few things your body is showing to tell you that you are not happy with the life you are living.
There are many things you can tell about your level of happiness from the way you look. Take a hard look at yourself in the mirror and see whether you possess any of the physical appearances of successful people. The truth is that attractive people are more successful because they are more comfortable in their skins. Are you overweight? Do you wear too much makeup? Do you still suffer from moles? Are you hunched and look down? Evaluate how your appearance changes your satisfaction in life. Find ways to change what you do not like and accentuate what you do.
Changing your opinion
You are always changing your opinion to suit the needs of other people around you. Sure, changing your opinion is healthy and sometimes necessary. You will not always be right, and your ideas may not always be great ideas. However, if you are always conforming to things that you don’t even like because you want to please other people, it shows that you are not happy with yourself. You always need to ask yourself, are you backing down from a conversation or avoid sharing your views because you do not want conflict? If the answer is yes, then you need to make sure that you change. One of the best ways to enjoy life is to ensure that you are heard and that your opinions are noticed and perhaps even change a person’s life. Regardless of whether those opinions could cause conflict or not.
You are not comfortable being alone
Sometimes, you need to disconnect yourself from the world for a few hours and just be by yourself. This allows you to gather your thoughts and connect with your core. It is also a great time to evaluate your strategies in life and find solutions to things that are challenging you. However, if you find it difficult or even impossible to be by yourself, then it is a sign that you are unhappy. Successful people are not necessarily happy, but happy people are successful people. Why? Well, they always have time to just be by themselves and connect to their core. This way, they end up finding their purpose in life earlier, and they work towards achieving it. So, if you are always on your phone or computer because you feel that you need to connect to the outside world constantly, it is likely that you have low self-esteem. You need to love yourself and to find friends outside social media. You also need to be comfortable with being alone sometimes.
You are not doing what you love
The economic situation and the standards of life today dictate what people do with their lives. Are you working at that place because you need to put food on the table or because you enjoy your job? If you constantly feel like you need to quit, then you are probably not doing what you love. Sure, there will be challenges, but they should not put you down. If you are doing something that you love, you will enjoy challenges as they will teach you new boundaries and heights that you need in your career. Therefore purpose to build your courage and do something you love. With fear comes unhappiness and causes you to retreat to a state of logical thinking that makes you think that you should “live by the rules.” Break the cycle, do something that you love even if it is out of your comfort zone. It may be tough at first, but if you do not chicken out, it will be worth it.
You feel like you always have to be on
Putting on nice clothes and makeup is great. If that is your thing, keep doing it. However, if you feel that you cannot leave the house without your make up or dressing up, then you are uncomfortable with yourself and are probably not happy. It is a sign that you have low confidence levels. You don’t always have to keep checking yourself. It takes a pretty assured person to take a picture when their hair is messy, and they have no makeup on. If you panic whenever there is a camera around then you are not happy with yourself. If you are not happy with yourself, you are not happy at all.